Misunderstandings

[ora]

Tina, there are a lot of opportunities to misunderstand each other! SIGH!!!

[Unregistered]

Tina, there are a lot of opportunities to misunderstand each other! SIGH!!!

I don't think the girls can view the board (except Masha).

[Nic]

Why don't you just explain to Tina in next show? I'm sure she'll understand you only meant well.

[rockerdude]

Why don't you just explain to Tina in next show? I'm sure she'll understand you only meant well.

What is this about? Did something happen again?

[ora]

Nic, I see no chance in that- the atmosphere seems to be poisoned since she lost her mobile; I tried it twice to find out what offended her then & she only marked that "I should know", what didn't really help me, cause I really don't... From this point on she is always looking for negative sides of what I am saying- I am very sad about that!
I still have the impression that I was faked those days, cause I left chat this day & when I returned she was mad with me.
With this post I didn't intend to put pressure on her, but to witness that I can post pics on board,; I had lots of probs with that before...

[Nic]

I joined the show very briefly just after whatever happened. I know it was something to do with 'escort service', which you had made a joke about but she took very badly and did not think was funny. All that followed was Tina telling you to 'go away' (not the exact words). Was that you? Geo was there too.

This is a big problem with chats, especially when translations and different cultures are involved.

Maybe myself/Geo can try and find out how she feels, now some time has passed?

BTW
but to witness that I can post pics on board,; I had lots of probs with that before...
I don't understand what you mean?

[Geo]

Ora, Nic: I was in the chat when Ora made reference to the 'escort service' joke and which Tina considered to be in very bad taste, upset her, and asked Ora to go. What Tina has been objecting to, is that, in the past too many of ora's jokes/comments, have had an implied second meaning which could be taken as a reference that the girls participate in some form of prostitution. This offends Tina and the other girls and they take great exception to them. :mad: madbam

Proberly your best way forward is to refrain from making these types of comments, try just complementry coments. One bad comment is remembered more than ten good comments. :flowers

Give Tina time to forgive and forget. This is a very busy time for them with University requiring their full attention. workingcom :thumbsup

:thankyou

[ora]

THX for comments, fellows! I did not intend to widespread this theme so far! The escort-case for me is only a result of the mobile-case 2 mths ago. I don t want to mix this cute girl Tina up . Unfortunately she was often on schedule, when the other girls were sick, &if I'd like to join chat these days I always risked to make her angry again. I can't reach her by mail without address: I asked her for it, but she refused- I don't want to be her stalker!
It is really a pity: when I joined MW in Sept. I thought I found someone on the same wavelenght when I visited Tinas shows: THIS is what I miss very much now, as u all can imagine...
I would like to finish this discourse now & give things time- as you said! It s ok!